"Can...Can I kiss you?"
I thought about making it one of my races, and might still do, but thought it would be cute as it is.
A clownfish family looks like this: one female with one breeding male, and a group of non-breeding males who are just sort of hanging around. If the female dies, the breeding male will transform into a female, and one of the other males will become the new breeding male.
This is their first night. She have never had sex as a female before, and he has never had sex before period. On top of that they’re old friends. Rather awkward.