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Y U NO Desperate? by humon Y U NO Desperate? by humon
I've been subjected to quite a few guys (and some girls) who honestly believed the stereotype that chubby/fat girls are desperate and easy, and got quite angry when I didn't respond to their flirting.
Doesn't matter if I liked them or not (or in the case of the girls, if I was lesbian), I should be happy someone showed an interest, dammit!

Jeeze! Who's the desperate one? :XD:
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Otakukiller Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Student Writer
i just realized the oddness of the connotation of "lesbian" and "gay". i saw it in the grammatical use you used for lesbian. you used it as an adjective, despite most using it as a noun, and yet gay is typically used as an adjective and you never hear someone refer to themselves or others as a gay, but rather as gay. it's just an odd thing how both words could easily be both a noun and an adjective, and yet we place specific connotations on their use. 
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Powerfluff Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2014  Professional Digital Artist
PFFFTT! HAHAHAHAHAH! :XD:
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Andracus Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2014
ah .-. this is so true I don't even wanna think about it. I wider if it's just happening to me right now.
duh... >.<
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Fishbelly Featured By Owner Oct 26, 2014
Not just chubby girls either. I've had this same issue because I'm nerdy and focus more on my school work and less on social interactions. A bunch of guys assume I'm a desperate geek who's too shy to ask anyone out. I may be shy and alone, but that doesn't necessarily mean I WANT to go out with anyone. XD Silly boys. 
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Likulia Featured By Owner Sep 19, 2014
You're great at drawing, funny, nice, have one of the most popular webcomics in existence, and known by millions. If I were a guy, I'd be FLATTERED if you showed interest in me.
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KATZENSAFT Featured By Owner Jul 22, 2014
That's what fat activists would like to think. 

:(
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firenzedraghi Featured By Owner Jul 11, 2014
*sigh* Sadly this goes for awkwardly nerdy girls with glasses, too. Was at the bookstore the other day and a guy became legitimately angry with me when I went ahead and opened my own door instead of going through the one he'd intentionally opened for me... even after I said quite nicely, "Thanks but I'll just go this way." Also, can't even count the number of times I've been sexually harassed and then expected to be grateful for it because at least someone was paying attention. WTF, guys. Just because I don't conform to standards of beauty that doesn't mean I'm 'desperate' or that I'm less worthy of common decency and respect ahaha T.T
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WolfGrowl96 Featured By Owner Jul 2, 2014
OMG THANK YOU!!! DAMN!! its impossible to find a chubby girl comic that doesnt involve half naked big girls or sexy pics. i know they look good but it doenst appeal to me.
anyways i liked this! im chubby too :happybounce:
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Avaroonii Featured By Owner Jun 10, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
Frustration Sigh 
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artisticallystrange Featured By Owner May 4, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
God so sad that it's true..ugh...I hate that people who think like that exist onion sad 
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PyLea94 Featured By Owner Feb 26, 2014
THIS, is usually how guys get "friend-zoned" :thumbsup:
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JackieReaper Featured By Owner Jul 29, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
hahahah
i might haft to make a spastic section for your stuff mt comic box is getting full!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Smexysatiremonkey Featured By Owner Jul 14, 2013  Student Writer
:iconclapplz:
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DahliaFay Featured By Owner Jun 14, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
entitled nice guy syndrome :iconimrlynotimpressedplz:
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:iconjaycookie1997:
JayCookie1997 Featured By Owner Jun 12, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Cuz once you are able to look past the physical aspect of people, you see their heart, and once you see their heart, it can NEVER be unseen~
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onesidedcross Featured By Owner Jun 9, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
prove them wrong, sometimes people think certain stereotypes are easy and whatnot and get pissed when they find out it's not true :/
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:iconghostoftheemptygrave:
I'm a geeky, scawny, pale, short, nerdy guy and I'm not easy. Quite the opposite.
Just ignore these idiots. They just want some easy sex.
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fantasyfan-XD Featured By Owner May 22, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Believing that a group is desperate by definition is just dumb, but being willing to take advantage of an individuals desperation is horrible.
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mcmanybucks Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2013
Why are most comments on this something you would hear an afroamerican religious woman say?
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:icon13gothmoth:
13gothMoth Featured By Owner Mar 24, 2013
Never trust anyone who thinks they deserve some grand reward in exchange for basic human decency.
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Priscilla19 Featured By Owner Mar 17, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Everybody is DIFFERENT! Not matter how he'd/she's look's!
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muffinelf Featured By Owner Mar 6, 2013
Preaching to the choir , sister :(

That's how all the young guys are out here-- it BLOWS because I never really got that far with anyone , and I know I'd have to super-trust them to give it up for the first time ... But why BOTHER when there are other six-billion women out there who will fuck them after 4 lines and a drink? XC
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MOONGAZER2892 Featured By Owner Feb 4, 2013
Really I did not know that some folks believe that. Well ya learn somthin new everyday.
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Rhea9d Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2013
LMFAO Their thirsty asses.
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MovieMowDown Featured By Owner Jan 17, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Be charitable, give free sex!
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CoolLittleDude Featured By Owner Mar 29, 2013
*slaps you*
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:iconmoviemowdown:
MovieMowDown Featured By Owner Mar 29, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
What? I give free sex to women.
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CoolLittleDude Featured By Owner Apr 8, 2013
*slaps you harder*
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XDB5 Featured By Owner Jan 9, 2013
Wonder how simple it would be for humans to act like other animals where they are loyal and sex is for carrying on your genes to the next generation only
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LadyoftheGeneral Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
That's horrible of them, but hilarious!
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KeKat147 Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
im desperate...and fat....annnnd im inbetween the "gross" in average looking and ugly...in the middle :3
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yubbi45 Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
:rofl: true, true
people are nice to me then look at me weird if im just like "oh thanks" instead of "OMG THANK YOU SOO MUCH, I FEEL SO UGLY WILL YOU HANG OUT WITH ME?? :noes:"
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moonstar26 Featured By Owner Dec 8, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
had this happen a few times it gets anoying
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PendulumQueen Featured By Owner Dec 6, 2012
I think this myth is probably applied to anyone that isn't conventionally attractive.
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IgnikaMarcus Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012  Hobbyist
Having dated a chubby girl myself I can verify that said stereotype is complete bullshit.
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tlatosm Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012  Student Artist
i know what you mean girl. i have that problem with guys right now on another site. ><
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Priscilla19 Featured By Owner Dec 1, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I hate stereotypes,they just a bunch of lies!!>:(((
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ArchMasterJazzy Featured By Owner Nov 27, 2012
"Nice guys" in a nutshell.
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Blackethouse Featured By Owner Nov 24, 2012  Hobbyist Artisan Crafter
Ironic that this came out on my b-day.

I wish I had been able to see this two years ago.
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CaveLupa Featured By Owner Nov 12, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Oh yes, I know that...
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AwesomeHellee9 Featured By Owner Oct 29, 2012  Hobbyist
so true guy are like that were i live it sick
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Captain-Sweden Featured By Owner Oct 28, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Ugh entitlement. :(
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:iconstarbystars:
StarbyStars Featured By Owner Oct 18, 2012
hm...this is reminding me of my boyfriends brother....
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TheTeastyPineapple Featured By Owner Oct 17, 2012
Say's is not easy, almost all drawings have something to do with sex.
:I
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PyLea94 Featured By Owner Oct 24, 2012
Dude, everyone thinks about sex, doesn't make then sex-crazed idiots. It's a free planet. Get over it. Just saying :D
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TheTeastyPineapple Featured By Owner Oct 24, 2012
Never said she was sex crazed, just saying its silly to be offended when some one wants to have sex with you when you yourself think about it most of the time.
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PyLea94 Featured By Owner Oct 24, 2012
Just because someone thinks about sex doesn't mean they want to xD just saying and it's unfair to assume someone's easy and will immediately have sex with just because they draw/write about it or whatever. Everyone thinks about sex or talks about it so if that was the case the most of the world would be going at it right now xD
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TheTeastyPineapple Featured By Owner Oct 24, 2012
Never said she wanted to, just saying that she should not be offended by the idea of sex if it's a driving force in her humor, that is like making jokes about about someone then that same person makes a joke about you and you get pissed. It's silly really.
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PyLea94 Featured By Owner Oct 25, 2012
It's still offensive to some people. Would you like it if someone assumed you were easy? Probably not. And I don't think she's offended by the idea of it but more the reason why some people approach her
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TheTeastyPineapple Featured By Owner Oct 25, 2012
It wouldn't get my jimmies rustled, but I am not using the idea of sex in my artwork like she does, so it would be a lot more inappropriate for me to be approached than her because she uses sex in almost all of her artwork.
:B
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